Accidents

Have you ever been so angry at someone or something and you feel as if you need to say something to that someone or something yet, you keep it in and for some odd reason you end up blurting whatever it is you were trying to keep in and then all of a sudden your caught up in the moment and you end up in an akward position? Well have you ever consider the thought that whatever it was that pushed you into blurting things out was meant to be? Ponder on this for a second. To be honest I strongly believe that accident such as these were meant to be. I'll give u an example, a friend tells you that he/she overheard another friend accuse you of some untruthful lies. I know what your thinking "Why are you even listen to this friend to begin with?" Well first of all, the friend who apparently overheard the conversation of the other friend speaking of the untruthful lies was indeed chosen to be put in that exact position at that exact moment, to coiencidently overhear the conversation. Well as this whole drama sequence continues you decide to go and confront this friend of telling the unfaithful lies about you. You've had enough of being nice and letting situations such as these slip by, you begin to feel as if you need to handle this situation in a not so very nice way. As you desperatly search for the friend who's telling the lies. You get so caught up in keeping in your anger that you feel as if you need to be mean to other but you don't. Finally a good friend whos is not involved in the drama sequence stops by and notices that something is just not right so this new friend approches you and you both to conversate of the situation. Sooner than you knew your rage slowly adjustes itself. The new friend speaks and begins to give you some advice of how to handle the situation. As you listen, you have this kind of time machine moment, where you look back of how you immediatly sprung into some kind of wild animal telling others how mad you were at one of your friends for telling lies. While your thinkin you immediatly recognize how quickly one friends changed ur mood from angry to understanding, and you find the entire situation foolish. Seeing how emotions can change so fast fasinates me now that I see I get angry over silly situations which many of us would call "accidents." I may be wrong for many, but I believe the accident of blurting out angry remarks, secrets, or whatever else without much thought was meant to take you on a new adventure of recognizing emotions consistantly changing. The next time you accidently yell at someone think twice because though you did not mean to behave in such way, you were meant to experience the situation.